by Joanna Lilley, MA, NCC, founder of Lilley Consulting
For a recently enrolled college student, it's important to be proactive in requesting accommodations. While I worked in
higher education I can't tell you the shock I experienced when I had not one but multiple students each semester tell me they
had an IEP in high school, were on medications before going cold-turkey in college, or didn't see the need to ask for
accommodations for their mental health.
Evan worse, they often didn't think it was appropriate to ask for help until close to the end of the academic semester.
At that point, the Office of Disability Services:
a) can't retroactively help the student with what he went through earlier,
b) may request that the student bring in additional paperwork that he can't get within a timely manner, and/or;
c) can't process the student's request before the end of the semester, thus leaving a student to
continue roughing it on through finals.
For a student who is finally acknowledging he wished he had gotten help before, this doesn't feel like a promising way
to round out the semester.
These kids have still developing brains and, by postponing doing the rational thing, are exhibiting cognitive distorted thinking: they think they can just "get
through" college without needing help, although they've had help for their entire academic careers up until college.
It's not that we don't want them to beat the odds, it's just an extremely unrealistic expectation.
If you're able to encourage your young adult to be proactive, do it early!
Below are some of the very good reasons for why a student needs to register through the Office of Disability Services on campus:
If you are thinking you'll be supportive of your young adult in however they choose to tackle college, make sure to voice
your opinion about them registering their disability. Although students treat this like it's optional, when it comes to
ensuring the likelihood of succeeding in college, registration of a disability is desirable and is required. Help your young
adult get the help they need, long before they become desperate for it.
Joanna Lilley, MA, NCC is a Therapeutic Consultant, Behavioral Healthcare Navigator, and Young Adult Advocate, specializing in working with struggling young adults and their families nationally and internationally. See her site at: www.lilley-consulting.com, contact her by phone at: (970) 218-9958, or email at: joanna@lilley-consulting.com.